{"id":418,"date":"2024-08-12T07:11:57","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T07:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lighteningweightloss.com\/relationships\/?p=418"},"modified":"2024-08-12T07:11:57","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T07:11:57","slug":"why-most-marriages-fail-you-are-not-enough-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lighteningweightloss.com\/relationships\/?p=418","title":{"rendered":"Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough people"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"480\" height=\"270\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/thyt78YClc8\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Buy my book, &#8220;The Value of Others&#8221;<br \/>\nEbook: https:\/\/amzn.to\/460uGrA<br \/>\nAudiobook: https:\/\/amzn.to\/3YfFwbx<br \/>\nPaperback: https:\/\/amzn.to\/3xQuIFK<\/p>\n<p>The divorce rate in the Western world is terrifying. How have we arrived at the point where a marriage is more likely to end in divorce than not? 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